Third Trimester - 1st Dr's visit

I've dr's appointment today. Last visit, dr. told me that she'll do ultrasound this visit. So I've been waiting for this visit from quite long time. Apart from that, glucose screen test is also planned. Hopefully, don't have any diabetes problems. I've to choose hospital also as my dr. is associated with 2 hospitals, one in Torrance and the other is cedarsinai. I've heard of the second one being good from my collegues. They have delivered babies in this hospital. Also, planned to go for hospital tour this or next weekend. I fought with my husband over this issue. Actually,
got so fraustated seeing his behavior. He doesn't come to ob/gyn, doesn't search for hospital or atleast didn't talk to anyone. The most irritating part is, after seeking suggestions and searching over web, if I decide something, he tries to give some logic for the other option. I just get so irritated here, from the first day, he wouldn't pay attention, as if it's not his issue at all and finally, when decision time comes, that is how it goes. I'm wondering if all the guys are like this or just mine!! I'm just afraid how he's going to handle his new role!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I've come from dr's office. So disappointed for not having scan (anxious to see my buddamma)
and also, I've gained 11.5lbs in this month. Nurse couldn't help laughing. Dr. told me not to worry because I've gained whatever I lost in first trimester but cautioned me to check the gain from now on. It shouldn't exceed 1lb per week. So I decided to cut down on rice and potatoes and other carbs. I've chosen cedarsinai hospital for delivery. Also, my visits are changed now. From now on, it's going to be every 3 weeks for twice and then every 2 weeks followed by every week from oct 7th onwards. My due date is coming sooooooooon...These days, our laddamma also getting active and time to follow timings also.
Yet to finish off some other tasks like tickets for my mom, hospital tour, decorating my home to welcome laddamma...

As it's third trimester, I'm reading more now a days from baby center and "What to expect...book. Now, too many questions are pondering my head can I differentiate false and true labor, what happens if I can't breathe properly and my baby gets stuck on the way, whether doctor helps or not, do I get good nurse and otehr medical assistance....though crores of people delivered babies, and ofcourse my mom and in-laws delivered kids at home...I can't even imagine that!! Don't know how they managed. Now I appreciate them lot better for their patience and pains they've taken.

Laddamma, we are waiting for you :):)